hi 46 yr old professionally employed in security field, I work hard and am on shift work . sole parent of 3 boys, no longer living with me. All over age of 18. I have brown/red hair blue eyes 5' 6" average build average looks, good sense of humour down to earth, apparently with a wicked smile (ACCORDING TO ALL MY FRIENDS) I like most activities, will try anything once. looking to meet a friend /possible long term relationship. not interested in control people just after a non complicated easy going relationship. I have pets so an animal lover is a prerequisite. I am financially secure and independent and like Porn Movies.I take people as I find them a sense of humour and personality is far more important than someones looks I am definately not gorgeous but neither am I the elephant woman. I f you think you fit the bill drop me a line. 
I enjoy catching up with friends having a good laugh over a cold beer or a nice glass of wine.I am a big sports fan who enjoys going to the gym or sitting back watching a good game of footy, cricket, rugby etc. I play netball and don't mind a hit of tennis  I'm fun yet serious, love to be social... and quiet nights in. Am everyones best friend, but looking for someone special to share my life with. Friends first, then ... who knows?  Am a down to earth person nice fun to be with,i was actually born in the usa,san diego but grew up in the uk i pose a uk nationality,am fun to be with friendly cool headed, Nothing I cannot do, , dance, tell jokes, make you laugh, I like nice dinners, trips and vacations. You don't have to want to marry me but you MUST be monogamous as long as we are seeing each other...but marriage should be the goal.i work for an affliate of the unicef is a private company we travel all around the world to help the poor kids,presently we are in africa....